Most people think rock bottom is the end of the story. For Matt Blanchard, it was the beginning of a different life—one built in a wheelchair, powered by purpose, and grounded in a mindset so relentless it makes excuses look small.
This is not a story about “overcoming” paralysis. It’s a story about rebuilding identity, rewiring the brain, and turning pain into service—for yourself, your family, and thousands of others who think their life is over.
Meet Matt Blanchard: The Athlete Who Lost Everything… and Found More
Before his car accident, Matt was the classic high-performance guy:
Athlete, marathoner, golfer
Successful electrical business owner
Strong, mobile, independent husband and dad
In one instant, a crash changed all of that. He woke up with a spinal cord injury, paralyzed from the waist down.
His identity as an athlete was stripped. His business collapsed. He filed for bankruptcy. He tried to go back to school, spent six years grinding out an undergrad degree, even got accepted to medical school. But underneath those achievements was a mind wrestling with pain, ego, and a body that no longer matched who he believed he was.
He came home from rehab to a life that felt unrecognizable. No team, no structure, no clear purpose. Just paralysis, bills, and the crushing thought that his wife and kids had “lost” the man they knew.
It got so dark that he sat in the shower with a gun, only stopped by the thought of his youngest son coming home from school and finding him.
And that’s where the second half of the story begins.
Today, Matt is:
Founder of Southern Utah Adaptive Sports, a nonprofit that gives people with spinal cord injuries, amputations, brain injuries, autism and more a way to move, play, and belong again.
A builder of an 18-acre adaptive sports ranch in St. George, Utah.
A mentor and speaker who uses mindset, affirmations, and radical authenticity to help others move through depression, trauma, and identity crisis.
A man who golfs, skis, surfs, rides adaptive mountain bikes, cliff jumps—and shows others how to do the “impossible” in their own bodies.
He still hates paralysis. And he still calls it the “worst, most wonderful thing that ever happened” to him.
5 Key Insights From This Episode
1. Identity Death Is Real—and It’s Also an Invitation
When Matt was injured, it wasn’t just muscles and nerves that were cut. It was identity.
He went from:
Able-bodied athlete → “disabled” by society’s labels
Business owner → bankrupt
Independent provider → relying on government disability checks that keep people trapped in survival mode
He describes it as being stripped from one community, then another, then sent home to “figure out paralysis alone.” That kind of identity death is traumatic—but also clarifying.
In his words, being shattered into a billion pieces gave him a strange gift:
“You get to put yourself back together the way you want—not the way your parents, religion, or society told you to.”
That’s the heart of high-performance mindset and long-term wellness: recognizing when an old identity has to die so something more aligned can be born.
2. Purpose Through Pain: Why Southern Utah Adaptive Sports Exists
Matt realized something:
Everyone with a major injury or disability is discharged from rehab into… a void.
No team. No daily goals. No one who really gets what it feels like when your body doesn’t respond.
So he built what he wished existed.
Southern Utah Adaptive Sports plugs people into:
Adaptive golf with VertiCat stand-up machines
Adaptive mountain biking (including high-powered Bowhead bikes steered by hips for those without arms)
Pickleball, basketball, ice skating, water sports, surfing, horseback riding and more
A village—for both the person with a deficit and their loved ones
He’s watched grandparents stand to golf again for the first time in decades while their families cry on the sidelines. He’s seen a bilateral arm amputee ride bikes with her family again.
This isn’t just “sports rehab.” It’s nervous system rehab. It’s identity rehab. It’s mental health, community, and performance training all at once.
And he’s just getting started. His vision?
Southern Utah Adaptive Sports becomes the largest adaptive nonprofit in the world, with St. George as a global hub for adaptive competition and community.
3. The Science of “I Am”: How Affirmations Rewire His Brain
Matt is not “positive thinking” his way out of paralysis. He is deliberately training his subconscious.
Every morning and every night, he runs his “I am” affirmations—the most powerful phrase in the English language, as he calls it:
I am the best father on the planet.
I am the best husband on the planet.
I am powerful beyond measure.
I am unstoppable.
I am life. I am love. I am a light in a dark place.
He speaks about his goals as if they are already true. Why? Because about 95% of our daily behavior is subconscious habit and pattern, like how you always wash the same armpit first in the shower or brush your teeth the same way.
So he deliberately feeds his subconscious new instructions.
When he says, “I am healthy, I am whole,” it changes his choices:
You can’t affirm “I am in the best shape of my life” and then mindlessly crush fast food. At some point, your subconscious calls BS and forces you to align your actions.
This is mindset work as neuroplasticity—rewiring belief, behavior, and ultimately physiology over time.
4. Gratitude vs. Resentment: The Mental Health Reboot
Matt has a simple, brutal rule when his brain starts spiraling:
Gratitude and resentment cannot live in the same place.
When he’s in “his bullshit,” as he calls it, his wife will look at him and say, “Three things you’re grateful for.”
He doesn’t just list them. He feels them:
Grateful for the air in his lungs.
Grateful that he can hug his kids and granddaughter.
Grateful for his wife, who has been with him since he was 15 and has carried the family through the darkest seasons.
The mood doesn’t always magically vanish. But gratitude cracks the shell. It interrupts the loop of “why me?” and shifts his nervous system out of victim mode.
This is emotional regulation in real time—a tool any human can use, whether you’re paralyzed, burnt out, or just overwhelmed by life.
5. “It’s Not About You”: The Shift From Victim to Village
After the accident, Matt learned the hard way that the world doesn’t revolve around his injury.
At first, everyone shows up. Then life pulls people back into work, kids, and routines. You’re left alone with your thoughts. That’s when self-pity becomes dangerous.
His antidote is radical:
“Stop making your bullshit about you.”
Instead:
Get outside.
Talk to a neighbor.
Ask someone else what they’re going through.
Remember: life is happening for you, not to you.
He believes the real unlock in wellness and longevity is when we shift from “me” to “us”—from patient to human, from isolated to village.
Why This Conversation Matters Now
We’re living in a culture where:
Anxiety, depression, and loneliness are skyrocketing.
Injuries, chronic illness, and disability can silo people into isolation.
Many high performers and athletes secretly tie their entire identity to their physical capabilities.
Matt’s story slices through the noise with a few non-negotiable truths about health, performance, and mindset:
Your body can break. Your spirit doesn’t have to.
You can build a powerful, high-performance life inside a “broken” vessel.
Purpose isn’t found in comfort; it’s refined in pain.
Community is not a luxury. It is a survival tool.
Whether you’re a doctor, coach, therapist, athlete, or simply someone struggling to get out of bed, this conversation is a masterclass in resilient mindset, identity rehab, and what it really means to be “whole.”
What You’ll Learn
From this episode of the Crackin’ Backs Podcast with Matt Blanchard, you’ll walk away with:
1. A New Definition of “Whole”
Why Matt says he is more whole now—in a paralyzed body—than he ever was when he could walk.
How “wholeness” connects to being a better husband, father, friend, and human—more than it does to physical perfection.
2. Practical Mindset Tools You Can Use Today
How to build your own “I am” statements that actually change your behavior.
How to use affirmations and visualization as daily brain training, not fluffy self-help.
How to shift from “one day” to “day one” when you’re stuck at rock bottom.
3. How to Turn Trauma Into Purpose
The step-by-step way Matt transformed suicidal thoughts and addiction into a mission that saves lives.
How Southern Utah Adaptive Sports is creating a model of adaptive wellness and sports rehab that could change the way we discharge and support people after catastrophic injuries.
4. The Power of Authenticity in Healing
Why trying to be someone else (even someone “inspiring”) will always fail.
How being fully, unapologetically you naturally attracts the right people, community, and opportunities.
5. A Hard Reset on How You See Your Own Body
What most able-bodied athletes and everyday movers take for granted.
Why, if you had to live one hour in Matt’s body, your relationship with training, mobility, gratitude, and pain would change forever.
How to approach your next workout, walk, or simple movement with deeper appreciation—not guilt, not pressure, but gratitude.
If you’ve ever felt broken, stuck, behind, or like your past has disqualified you from a meaningful future, Matt’s story is proof that you’re not done.
Rock bottom can be a terrifying place.
It can also be the most honest, powerful launching pad you’ll ever stand on.
For the full story and unfiltered conversation, listen/watch the Crackin’ Backs Podcast.